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What matters most to you in a relationship?
Choose the 10 needs that feel most important to you. Don't worry about ranking them yet — we'll do that next.
❤️ Love & Affection
Do I feel loved?
🔥 Intimacy & Desire
Do I feel desired and intimately connected?
🔐 Security & Trust
Do I feel safe trusting this relationship?
💬 Communication & Understanding
Do I feel heard and understood?
🤝 Respect & Appreciation
Do I feel valued and respected?
🫂 Connection & Togetherness
Do we share meaningful time and a sense of us?
🕊️ Autonomy & Boundaries
Can I remain myself within this relationship?
🌱 Growth & Exploration
Do we keep growing, playing and discovering together?
🏡 Partnership & Shared Life
Are we building a life together?
That's all of them. The ones you didn't choose aren't unimportant — they just aren't your top 10.
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